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Dating safely

Most people you meet are exactly who they say. These habits protect you from the few who aren’t.

Report romance scams to SAPS

If you suspect a scam, stop all contact and report it to the South African Police Service. Keep messages, payment records and profile details, as SAPS says this evidence can help an investigation.

Source: Boksburg Advertiser: SAPS warns about romance scams

Call your bank fast if you have paid

If you have sent money or shared banking details, contact your bank immediately and report to SAPS. If you are unhappy with how your bank responds, the National Financial Ombud Scheme can help for free.

Source: The Star: Victims of romance scams urged to report fraud to banks and police

Keep your personal details private

SABRIC, the banking industry's risk centre, warns that the promise of love can cost you dearly. Never share your ID number, address or financial details with someone you met online, and be wary of profiles that seem too perfect.

Source: The Post: Don't get lured by promise of love

Further readingOur sister site Smooch explains how romance fraud works and how to report a romance scam in the UK. WhichDating, our sister review site, explains the signs of a dating scammer.

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